To change or not to change.

Over the week, I posted a quote on Facebook. It came about when I was sharing with a friend how when Jase and I started going out, I had all kinds of expectations. The kind of expectations every girl has in a courtship.
"I want a guy who is romantic, a gentleman, who knows how i feel, who dresses well, who showers me with expensive dinners and gifts..." There are a lot more of expectations...but you get the idea. Which guy hasn't heard this before?

And let's not forget to thank Hollywood for emphasizing the "perfect man" benchmark which all women use to compare with their potential partners. *you know you do*

Seriously, a woman's emotional cycle is unpredictable. So on days when I'm more "sensi" (a.k.a sensitive) I would get riled up to the "Whys" and "How come" he doesn't do or say that. And when I'm at the point of annoyance, I bring it up to him. And we get into a discussion.

And this went on for quite a bit. In his defense, his answers really does make logical sense (except ...